To My Baby Dad
If I messaged you 9 days ago, and we already discussed or
argued about it DO NOT decide to send me another mean email 9 days later.
You have lied about me and our son and the situation in
regards to our son. I am done defending the truth. If your mom, sisters,
brothers and friends in TX want to believe you and totally neglect my son
that’s on you!
Let’s be honest! I have never tried to sleep with you since
we broke up. I don’t use my son against you, those are things you lie about.
Every year you came back to Canada you tried to have sex with me and used my
son to try and do so. You didn’t make time for him on any other occasion unless
you wanted something from me.
Yes I know you ex-wife who seems to think her opinion
matters in regards to my son has many more lies. Like pretending I would
message her, Nah that was her wanting to know about you and who you were with.
I even have the message still from her telling me you were having another boy
and ours wasn’t even a month old. Yes she can say I looked her up and knew you
were married but you and I know that isn’t true. I had no idea until she posted
on an anonymous blog that you were married and that was long after I had
visited you in Texas and stayed at your apartment multiple times. If you were
still married where was she? Don’t married people live together? Remember how
many times I felt bad for her and gave you privacy to talk because you said she
was bi-polar and having a hard time, remember how I respected that. Now she
calls me old, ugly, fat and gummy, a bad mother and a druggie she even calls me
an alcoholic.
Your girlfriend seems to love to blame me for everything
because heaven forbid she look at the damn truth! Seriously how many times have
you cheated and lied to her? How many times do you say they are lying and that
it’s me or someone I know? Why don’t you tell her the truth and that I have no
idea who these girls are and that I have nothing to do with you constantly
cheating? Why don’t you tell her the truth about how you lived with me? Tell her about our trip when she moved to
Texas and you were away with me on a mini vacation, you weren’t even there when
she moved in but somehow I am the one lying. Or lets tell people how you lied
saying I was stalking you and her and that you guys were scared for your lives
when it was her stalking me, and
messaging me. Hence why the judge called your claim ridiculous and awarded me
court costs. Should we talk about how
she called my home and talked to my daughter who told her the truth and then
she called my daughter a liar, a child! How dare she?
Honestly all you have done is hurt and disappoint my son.
You never paid a dime in child support until I filed court papers, and even
then you fought me for 15 months not wanting to pay. Claiming you had nothing
yet taking family vacations. You don’t pay child support, or your share of the
child care costs. You aren’t there when Kaden is sick. The one time I did allow
you to come to the hospital your girlfriend took to social media calling me a
bad mom, because my son fell and hit his head. Again another situation YOU lied
about. At the end of the day you guys can lie and slander my name all you want
it’s been 4 years now, I am use to it.
Where were you when you promised to call Kaden? What was so
important that you would tell Kaden you would face time him and then didn’t.
Why do you tell him you will see him and then stand him up? These are the real
issues that I have to deal with, ones that have lasting effects.
Do you know 2 nights ago he asked me who his Dad was? “Why
don’t Daddy see me?” “Is he dead?” This all
from a three year old. You have no idea what you have done and keep doing to him and my other 2 kids.
Next time you want to send me a message about stopping the
BS when I haven’t even contacted you please think about your actions and the
damage of all your lies!
Please leave us alone! You don’t contact Kaden, pay anything
for Kaden and what has been paid in child support was only because your wages
were garnished. If you can’t be honest
at least keep our names out of your mouth, and for the LOVE of God stop lying
about your son and I and the situation!
In Kind Regards,
The Mother of your son!
